I spent most of my life watching other people…. Not because I was shy but because I was studying them. As a young teenager I remember standing back and watching other girls — how they held their bodies, how they tilted their heads, where they put their hands when they stood still. I was reverse-engineering something that came naturally to everyone else. I just didn’t know why yet.
I know now because I’m Autistic. I wasn’t diagnosed until the age of 42 though.
The diagnosis didn’t change me. It explained me — to myself, finally, after a lifetime of being too smart for the room, too blunt for the relationship, too much and somehow not enough at the same time.
My story isn’t a straight line.
I was kicked out of my family home at 16 after being sexually assaulted and then blamed for it and never got the help I should have. I finished high school on my own. Taught myself everything I needed to live; to buy a car, how to pay bills, to go to college, to live on my own, pay the bills, etc. I didn’t know that there was another way to live since I had only lived in survival mode.
I married at 21 and we strugglingly made it for 23 years together. Children and multiple learned skills later I finally got an EMDR therapist to help and I did the work, got an Autism diagnosis which explained everything. I got certified in Energy work, I took care of myself, and I read an amazing book that finally cracked something open in me which helped me to get my voice back, create my boundaries and learn who I wanted to be.
And then I started over…. Again!
I graduated from Arizona State University, Summa Cum Laude, with a Bachelor’s degree in Family and Human Development. I’m a certified Emotion Code and Body Code practitioner. I’m an Herbalist and healer. Organization specialist, Office systems, management, programming.
I’ve spent decades going into broken systems — businesses, families, lives and figuring out what’s wrong, building something that works for them, and teaching people how to run it without me.
I’m also still learning. Still growing. Still figuring out what it means to live authentically in a world that was not built for my brain.

That’s exactly why I do this work. If you’ve spent your life performing a version of yourself that exhausts you — I see you. If you were diagnosed late and everything suddenly makes sense but you don’t know what to do with that — I’ve been there.
If you aged out of the foster system that never gave you the tools to actually live — I want to give you those tools. You don’t need to keep watching other people and wondering how they do it.
You just need someone who learned the hard way, and is willing to show you what they found.

That’s me. I’m Ginger. Welcome to this Healing Journey.